Sunday, December 21, 2025

My Greatest Challenge...


"...I am patient with myself..."

"...I am kind to myself..."

"...I am accepting and non-judgemental of myself..."

Ahhh...if only true!


I have always been my own worst critic.

It has been one of the greatest challenges in life - to actually like myself.


But I'm working on it, and making progress...


It's been a life long journey, and part of the recent progress is based on developing a changed perspective about my internal critic (which I suspect we all have). 

Now when mine shows up, I have finally learned that I can choose whether to actually listen and believe what he says.  So it is becoming easier to stop ripping off my arm and beating myself up with it when I make a mistake. 


And then there's perfection.

I have always strived towards a better way of living, a life reflecting character, a life of consistant increasing virtue - to be the Last Boy Scout...

      - Trustworthy

      - Loyal

      - Helpful

      - Friendly

      - Courteous

      - Kind

      - Obedient

      - Cheerful

      - Thrifty

      - Brave

      - Clean

      - and Reverent


I've come to realize trying to live to the standards implied by that Scout motto, learned at age 11 before turning my life over to Christ, has been my subconscious North Star for a looong time.


Congruency is achieved when your actions are aligned with your core beliefs...


I do believe through Jesus Christ, I am seen as perfect and sinless in God's eyes, but that does not make all my actions acceptable and perfect here on earth.

Much like Sisyphus repeatedly pushing a large boulder up the mountain - only to have it roll back over him, only recently have I gained understanding that my constant, life-long struggle has been pushing my own boulder up a mountain, trying to achieve a life of unattainable perfection...and being crushed when I failed.

Though now, I fully acknowledge the reality that no one (including me!) will ever, nor can ever achieve perfection while living on this earth.

Finally coming to that full awareness has been life changing.


And I've been reflecting on the changed perspective for a while now...


Accepting that I shall never be perfect, I have made a conscious choice to continue pursuing a life of virtue - but for totally different reasons now.

It's no longer to attain perfection, but for the simple satisfaction of pursuing "a life better lived".


Success is the progressive realization of a worthwhile goal or objective...


I believe it's the struggle, the push against the boulder, which makes us stronger and provides true satisfaction...it's the pursuit of a goal...

In fact, the pursuit has become a fresh adventure with renewed energy, new discoveries, and with new motives...

...of fully accepting myself for who I am, warts and all...

...to own the past already lived with its mistakes and miracles...

...to welcome and actively embrace the future...

...and to finally be at total peace with the person I am after these 69 years.



And though still far, far from perfect, I'm "OK" with that...



Let the adventure continue... 


Monday, November 24, 2025

Learning...


The capacity to learn is a gift...

The ability to learn is a skill...

The willingness to learn is a choice...

                                     Brian Hebert



Let learning continue...



Let the adventure continue...



Saturday, November 22, 2025

Fast, Fasting, Fasted...


The following is not medical advice, it's simply my view from Windy Hill.

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Just coming off a 6 day water only fast.  Started Sunday at 3pm and now starting to to come off it with my first food Saturday evening around 5pm. That's 18 plates worth of food missed and 144 hours of my life energy invested in body healing...


So here's the background...

I've been intermittently fasting off and on for over 15 years, usually from Sunday night to Monday night or Tuesday morning. Historically Mondays were busy work days, so it was easy to miss meals and just fast, using the extra 3 hours for productive work, including attending a Monday night men's Bible study.

So I'm accustomed to missing a meal or two and my body doesn't object or complain.  I think it's an easily trained response of mental over physical knowing "I'm in control, and not my body".


Periods of fasting also show up in every major religion.  For Christians, fasting is mentioned in the Old Testament and of course, Jesus fasted for 40 days in the wilderness, along with multiple New Testament references for us as believers to include prayer and fasting as part of our Christian walk. 


I've read and investigated much on the health affects of intermittent fasting and extended fasting.  Research indicates significant physical and mental health benefits from both.  Among many, one major highlight is helping to control insulin and Insulin Resistance, which when IR is high, diabetes is diagnosed.

Intermittent fasting can include a daily schedule of not eating for 12 to16 hours per day, so that means healthy eating during the remaining 8 or 12 hour window, and no food in the 3 hours before bedtime.  Additionally, intermittent 24 hour fasts are relatively common and safe.


An extended 5 day or 7 day fast is on the upper end, and about as long as recommended for a medically unmonitored fast.


Fasting experts highly recommend fasts for everyone except pregnant or nursing women, and indicate that up to a 7 day fast is likely safe for most healthy adults. 

The longer the duration - the better for health benefits, although any fast of longer than 7 days should have medical oversight to make sure blood markers remain healthy through the fast.


After the first 24 hours of not eating, the body moves from using digested food for energy to using stored body fat, converting it to a higher form of energy usable by the body.  Ketosis is that state of fat burning, which is what people try to achieve with the Keto, Palio, Carnivore and similar diets, which are typically low carb, high protein with healthy fats.


Extended fasting...14 days...20 days...even 40 days have additional proven health benefits based on research, to jack up the benefits for resetting or rebooting the body.  There's evidence of cured systemic health issues such as diabetes, some cancers, mental illnesses, auto immune diseases, high blood pressure and other chronic illnesses are documented. (Read da' books!)


The process that generates many of the disease related health benefits is called "autophagy" - Latin for the body eating itself.


At a summary level, during a fast the significant energy normally used by the body to digest food is redirected, and triggers the cells into cleaning themselves by consuming bits and pieces of old cell parts floating within the cell.  Done all over the body, the results are an overall cleaning of the body at the cell level.  One additional result per research is that beneficial stem cells are released, helping to restore damaged cells back to normal.

The autophagy process is reported to include destroying some types of cancer or pre-cancerous cells, other causes for inflammation, and free radicals within the body.


THIS action and it's long-term benefits are my highest motivation for doing an extended fast.

It's the body healing itself.


So fasting...whether from 12 hours or up to 40 days provides benefits.  For me, they are powerful motivations to see it through to the end. 



My 2025 fast adventure...

I mentioned intermittently doing 24 or 36 hour fasts in the past, typically on Mondays.  I also did my first extended 5 day fast about 18 months ago.


My desire now is to make it an annual thing, so I am targeting the week before Thanksgiving as my fast week moving forward.


Historically, I have gone from 180 pounds to over 195 between Thanksgiving and New Year's.  It's a combination of less outside activity and high availability of calorie dense food during the holidays.  It then takes me to April to get back to 180-ish.  During the warmer months, I often skip lunch while working outside, and every missed meal helps with reducing caloric intake!


My experience has been extended fasting results in both physical and mental benefits.

Physically, I lose weight from burning stored fat.  Also I consider it a body cleansing and reboot process.  On this fast, I did not experience excessive hunger, in fact after the first missed meal, the craving for food ceased. This generally happens when I fast.

It was a water only fast, so ahead of normal meal times, I filled up on water, which abated the hunger urge.

I mark my weight on a graph on the closet wall, and have been taking the measurement every day, for the last 5 years.


I have the data!


Plus about 6 months ago I started to record my activity level for the previous day.  It's subjective and just for me, so I judge rather strict, since it merits a gold star on the graph. And just getting out of bed does not earn a gold star!


So over 6 days, I went from 185 to 173, so about 12 pounds down...


Granted some of that weight is hydration related, but I've been fairly regular on water consumption throughout the fast.

What nearly derailed me was the caffeine headache that started Monday morning and lasted through Tuesday morning.  Nearly 24 hours of level 8 pain throbbing in my head.  I was nearly comatose on Monday (no gold star) and was in bed by 7pm.

Sadly, it's an indication that I've been consuming too much coffee.  And I've not yet decided if I'll start again after the fast.  There's some research based benefits associated with coffee/caffeine, but I suspect excessive caffeine is not providing even more benefits!  But the pain when I stop, and knowing I'm dependent on it are strong motives to quit.

Physically during the fast I had less energy.  I remained active and productive (caught my biggest bass of the last 5 years while fasting!).  But I could tell I didn't have much reserve and tired more quickly.  But that's all good and expected!


Periods of fasting are for body healing...


Mentally, this fast has been a major success.  The Ketosis process mentioned above is amazing to experience.  The brain is operating on a modified high energy source, and thinking is clearer and the ability to focus thought is enhanced.

The best I can describe it, for me at least, is that time seems to slow down and thinking is focused and in the present.  I can think on a topic and stay focused without other thoughts trying to crowd in and hijack my mind.

And much of my "monkey mind chatter" is silenced.

It's a bit like the Matrix, where Neo experiences the world in periods of slow motion, seeing and responding to everything happening around him with thoughtful response, rather than reaction.

It's an enjoyable experience for sure.

I'm calmer now and less reactionary.  More thoughtful, and feeling more in control of my actions.  The world events are out there and not in my head.


The other area to mention is gaining additional control over eating.  After this much time invested in not eating anything, I'm more thoughtful of what I'll allow into my body.

It's easier now to say "No" to high processed garbage, salt, sugar and obvious bad carbs like cookies, crackers and bread. 

Although I still plan to eat a smashburger on a good brioche bun Saturday evening, I remain highly selective on which of the obvious carbs I choose to eat.



This post barely hit the high points on fasting, and there were additional nuances experienced, but this is long enough for now.  I'm off to get some Kiefer to restore my gut biome and start my return to eating...and tonight, the first meal after 6 days will be that grass fed Angus smashburger hot off the griddle! (Update: It was spectacular!)


I'm in a calm, peaceful state of mind, and if there were no other benefits from fasting, that by itself is worth a missed meal or two...



Let the adventure continue...with calmness...





 


Wednesday, November 19, 2025

0 to 3 mph

 Closing out the season...maybe one more trip left (he says optimistically)! 

Wind forecast was 0 to 3 mph out of the North through mid morning, then increasing to 6 to 7.


Now there's an olde fisherman's saying about the wind...

     Wind out of the South, blows the bait in their mouth

     Wind out of the West, Fishing is best

     Wind out of the East, fish bite the least

     Wind out of the North, don't go forth


Sure it was out of the North...but only 0 to 3 mph...


It was too much temptation to resist!


Temps started out at 26 degrees, rising to 45 by mid afternoon...

Not bad for Wednesday, November 19, 2025, just a week before Thanksgiving!


Oh, but it was cold at dawn!  Only boat at the Lamoka Lake launch. Saw some thin ice heading out through the channel, and fine mist was rising as the lake gave off heat.  The mist was freezing on everything in the boat, painting everything with a sparkly sheen as I entered the lake.

I started on the same pattern, Fishing a wannabe minnow plastic bait on a dropshot rig up the edge from 20 feet to 10 feet, along the same stretch on the Northshore.

Fingers were cold numb, and I had to dip the rod in the lake on about every 3rd cast to clear the ice on the rod guides.  It was freezing fast till about 30 minutes past that wonderful sun rising to warm these old bones.


The lake temperature was 43 degrees...so warm enough! 


And the fish tally tells the story! 





Boated 8, with 6 of them 2 pound plus chunks.  Big solid fish, mostly smallies, plus 3 good hits and a monster that broke off.  Also a couple of toothy snake fish, a Pike and a Perch.  Great action!



And

         The

                  Big

                          Fish

                                    For

                                             The

                                                      Day...



4 pounds and 13 ounces of giant largemouth!

Easily the biggest I've ever caught on Lamoka...or even in NY.

And tomorrow's forecast is for more of the same...



Except the wind will be out of the South! 



Let the adventure continue... 



Saturday, November 15, 2025

Lamoka Is Dialed In...

November 15th, 2025 - opening day of gun season for NY deer.

The rut has been on for about 10 days...

Everyone else is hunting...and I own the lake!  


6:15am is still a bit early, even for false dawn, but we're going to launch...we're living on the edge!


By myself today, so the rope-a-boat trick worked efficiently for floating the boat off the trailer, tying it to the dock and parking the truck and trailer.


My old Yamaha is cold natured, but once cranked, it runs well...it seems we have much in common!


45 degree water, 32 degree air temp, and I was hunting my gloves before getting 100 yards down the channel...


Sunrise at the lake entrance was spectacular and a showcase once again of God's handwork! 




Passed up the Island and went straight to the Northshore "drop zone".  Trolling motor down and started hunting the 10' edge to fish deep to shallow, up the drop-off.  


There's a little morning chop, from the sunrise, but the lake layed back down, and the forecast was 1 to 3 mph out of the South through mid-morning, then up to 7 by noon and increasing as the afternoon progresses, with falling temps and rain by evening. 


Just like clockwork...chunks!  Big smallies on the ZMan minnow on a 1/0 finesse hook with a 3/8th drop shot down about 12 inches.  A total of 4 in the boat with 3 other solid bites that I didn't get hooked up.


Just fun, fun fishing...and it's now a very dependable pattern, with bigger than average bass!


Just have to mention this one!  Big fish for the day!  (And the squints are from this old blind guy trying to see the camara in the sunlight!) 







I had it in the boat and had my phone in hand for a photo...


...when my buddy Caleb called for our daily zoom!


He's always big smiles when we connect, and so of course I had to do some show & tell, so he could see what a "real" fish looked like! 


He grinned big-time when I showed him the 3 lbs, 7 oz green monster.


That may be the first real live fish he's ever seen, but it's only the first of a thousand more we plan to catch together over the next several years.


I can hardly wait!



Let the adventure continue...



Friday, November 14, 2025

Listen Up...

 A wise old owl lived in an oak,

The more he saw the less he spoke, 

The less he spoke the more he heard, 

Why aren't we all like that wise old bird?

                                       ~ An Olde Poeme



Let the adventure continue...



Wednesday, November 5, 2025

This One's Just For Me

This one truly is just for me, a record of a memorable day on the lake!


November 2nd, 2025

It's a Sunday morning, late fall, but perhaps we might still catch a fish???





It was the first day with low wind in a while, and the last day without wind for the next couple of weeks!

The forecast was calm winds, 0 to 3 mph out of the south till Noon, then shifting out of the west at 5 to 6 mph.

Air temp was forecasted as 33° at daybreak, warming to 55° with clear to slightly overcast skies. 


So I met CJ at Walmart at 5:15a ("Fall Back" DST time changed during the previous night). 

We arrived at Lamoka about 6:00a, just before 1st light - perfect!

The Yamaha roared and then purred...signaling the start of another promising fishing day!


The actual water surface temp was 51°, and ended up warming to 52.8 through the morning.

A dropshot rod was rigged beside me, based on the last trip where we caught a couple of good bass on a steep 10 ft to 20 ft underwater dropoff on the North shore of the lake.


We were going to test if lightening would strike twice!


The first fish of the day was a 20 inch pike hitting a shad colored swim bait on the north side - west end of "The Island".  It's always our starting point to get the cobwebs out.  The Pike was a quick hook up, as CJ was still threading his bait on his jig.

Then it was a 15 inch largemouth near the middle of the island.  A couple more hits, then a Pickeral.  CJ caught a couple of bass also off the island if I recall correctly.


Then across to the North shore, and we started trolling along a 10 ft deep edge that dropped into 25 feet...and the day got real interesting!


Lots and LOTS (we lost count) of 16 to 24 inch, 3 and 4 pound hard pulling, chunky football shaped Smallmouths on the dropshot rig with a Z-Man's small fluke/shad bait (green back, white belly).





I was using a 3/8 oz lead weight hanging about 12 inches below the bait.  We were on the shore side of the edge, casting deep and fishing the bottom, retrieving to shallow up the drop off.

Most effective seemed to be a slow drag and pause retrieve, with minimal motion added to the rod.

CJ was also hooking up with a similar shad colored swim bait fished on a jighead pulled along the bottom.





When I say we lost count, it's because it was easily 20 fish between us, with both the dropshot and the jig catching fish.

There was the Pike mentioned, seven or eight Pickeral, even a big 12 inch Perch and the bass...many, many bass! 





We fished around to the Willow point, taking fish the whole time. I had a gigantic Smallie which might have been 5 pounds (in my eyes!) that hit deep, then freight trained from 18 feet, straight up, jumped, cleared the surface, and threw the bait back at me! A spectacular fish that showed its self and earned it's freedom!





Three or four Smallies were caught on Willow Point drop off using the dropshot rig. While CJ scored 3 or 4 Largemouth in a row off the 8' deep flat on the left side of the point. At one point we even had a double, with CJ and I both horsing in some chunks at the same time. 

Somewhere around this time, the wind died back to a calm, almost no ripple period. 


We then continued proceeding along the North shore and fishing down the East shore using the same deep water pattern, continuing to get hits and hooking fish, though a bit less frequently.  As the shore turned south running towards the church camp, the fishing slowed, though CJ pulled out 2 more Largemouths.  The first was a good 18 incher, likely 3 pounds, but second was bigger yet!


CJ had caught the biggest LM of the day, guessing maybe 4 pounds and 22 to 24 inches.


It was at this point, we noticed the wind shifting around to the west, and could watch as the lake churned a bit as the wind picked up and the water started to ripple and waves moved toward us from a dry front.  It was interesting seeing the change, from calm, no waves to the 90 degree shift in wind direction and increased velocity in reel time...I mean real time!

We fished a bit more, retracing part of our path back to Willow Point, but we caught nothing more, and with the wind blowing steady from the dry front, we called it and headed to the ramp.


In Reflection...

It was our BEST day ever on Lamoka, just full of action from first cast before sunrise to Noon. It was one of those days where we didn't need to scratch our heads and swap baits because we were dialed in and catching 'em. 

These were the first Smallmouths of this year, and all were big chunky adults, hard fighting and just F-U-N fish to catch, plus the Largemouth were twice bigger than typical Lamoka bass.

The equipment all ran fine.  The 30 year old Xpress and Yamaha 115 hp motor still run strong and trouble free!


Next time, I might consider shifting to a 1/4 oz weight if the lake calms like it did on this trip. It might impart a bit more natural movement to the dropshot bait.


All in all, it was memorable.  We had one other big November day on Lamoka about 6 or 7 years ago, casting 12 foot deep running crankbaits for Smallies in the same general area as this day, but that day, was lots of action in a 30 minute window. 

This day it was different, we were on fish most of the morning, using an easily repeatable pattern.  It was the perfect close to what has been a good fishing year...

CJ and I have fished more over the last 3 or 4 months, even during midweek, targeting low wind days, which has been productive, and very enjoyable!


And I'm still checking the "Windy" app!  Ever the optimist, maybe we can get one more adventure in before the hard water hits!



Let the adventure continue...






Monday, November 3, 2025

Watch and Learn...

A common adage - though perhaps often too used...

It's typically a parent to child thing...

An attempt to pass on generational wisdom...

Although it's not always delivered well, received well, nor fully appreciated by a young observer...

But I do believe it's an idea which can --- and should --- be reversed! 

There's much we adults can glean from watching children. Whether they're 2 months, 12 years or 42 years old.  But one must pay close attention and have a desire to learn! 



So here is today's "watch and learn"...taught by Caleb, our 9 month old perfect grandson, who I might add, is much like our perfect granddaughter Arden!

Now Caleb's momma requested no social media exposure when he was born waaaay back 9 months ago. 


But she's not the boss of me!!!


So here's a picture introducing the young adventurer, all fastened in and ready to travel from a recent road trips!




The Overcomer

Right now, young Caleb is learning to pull himself erect.

To stand! 

He's doesn't understand it, yet he's learning and internalizing the laws of gravity in pursuit of balance.

It's all being done for the ultimate fulfillment of his strategic goal which he does understand...to become Master Of The Universe!

Though now only an accomplished crawler, he will not just learn to balance and then walk...but he will RUN!  Mastering all of it - in the next 60 days! 


Mark it down, Caleb will be running after Rudolph and The Great Bumble by Christmas!!!


It's enjoyable to watch as he's engaged in extreme focused concentration as he learns to stand.

You can easily see the concentration in his face, the pursed mouth, the sharpness in his eyes, the determination as he processes every wobble and shake.

He's not conscious of it, of building up his muscles and training his body, as he learns to master gravity to simply stand.

He's achieved what we all forgot how to do - Caleb is living in the moment.

He's tuned into his body, feeling for feedback, he's unconsciously learning which muscles are needed to achieve balance, which neurons to trigger for the subtle adjustments needed...and he doesn't even know he's doing it.

He may appear to be just reaching out for the next handhold, but he's actually striving with determined focus towards his goal - to stand...to be free.


And maybe there's another thing to learn from young Caleb...


He's absolutely NOT thinking about anyone who may be watching him.  He cares not whether anyone is judging or thinking critical thoughts of his efforts!

When he does look around, his whole face brightens into the most heart warming smile if he catches you watching --- but --- he cares nothing about what you might be thinking regarding his last wobble!


So what can we aged, wise adults, so full of wisdom learn from watching Caleb?


It might be that WE should become more Caleb like...


Consider...

How much importance do you place on the acceptance of others?

How does fear of other's judgment inhibit or limit your actions?

Are you free with your comments which align with your beliefs, or are they "adjusted" based on the audience?

Are you embarrassed or holding back on the pursuit of your dreams and goals?

Do I look OK?  Is my hair alright?

Should I go introduce myself to that person?

Should I even nod to acknowledge that stranger?

What will they think of me?


Caleb does not carry any of those concerns within him!


We still have so many unattempted adventures to experience.  We have so many goals and dreams that we push still farther out to the distant horizon.


There are still dragons to slay...treasures to be found...universes to explore...fears to conquer...and simple daily lives to live unafraid.


Each can be accomplished using Caleb's mission to stand! 


Focus and Forget!


FOCUS intently on your dreams, your goals, your plans for tomorrow...

FOCUS and pursue what needs to be done next to stand...to walk...to run...to be master of your own universe!


FORGET about "the others", "the judgers", "the they" who don't really matter.

FORGET about how silly you may look as you wobble towards your goal.

FORGET all fears of failing...



Stand...Walk...Run...Be Free!



Let the adventure --- for everyone --- continue...



Sunday, November 2, 2025

Rocky!

I dislike the time shift nonsense!


Last night I went to bed early due to the "Fall Back" time change, which required a 4:15a wake-up the next morning in order to be on the lake, and fishing at first light.


I had just fallen asleep and heard J yelling for me...I was positive death was at hand...!


She had let Eb, the mouser kitty in...not realizing he had Rocky the Flying Squirrel in its mouth...


Now, all the YouTube daredevils in the Redbull flying suits are just wannabe flying squirrels. Like the squirrels, they have webbed suits allowing them to start high and glide to lower elevations...ideally in an elegant, controlled free fall.  They both look alike, except flying squirrels generally survive! 

 

So Eb pranced in as only Eb can do...and dropped the squirrel...in the house...but Rocky was still very much alive...



And --- THAT --- triggered the death yell...!!! 


Mayhem ensued with Rocky scrambling around the living room, dodging behind and under anything it could find for cover...


But it was not just running, it was also leaping up into the air and gliding while running wildly...


And me chasing it around with a broom and dustpan (first thing I could grab)...


J was running around shutting doors to keep our little guest in the main part of the house...


And poor Eb the kitty was chasing it simply to get his dinner back!


It was Keystone Cops comedy for about 3 minutes...but we were ultimately victorious and out it went.


I tossed it into the yard with an easy underhand flip from the dustpan, and he gracefully spread his wings gliding off into the dark...an expert YouTuber set free...while poor Eb just meowed disparagingly!


I'm still amazed how beautiful it was, small and compact, with its big eyes and webbed wings.  And I'm pondering how Eb the kitty managed to catch it initially?


Especially considering all the natural capabilities of a flying squirrel to avoid being the star of a blog post!



Let the adventure continue...(but not that one again!)...



Friday, October 31, 2025

I Sit Beside The Fire...

 I sit beside the fire and think

Of all that I have seen

Of meadow flowers and butterflies

In summers that have been


Of yellow leaves and gossamer

In autumns that there were

With morning mist and silver sun

And wind upon my hair


I sit beside the fire and think

Of how the world will be

When winter comes without a spring

That I shall ever see


For still there are so many things

That I have never seen

In every wood in every spring

There is a different green


I sit beside the fire and think

Of people long ago

And people that will see a world

That I shall never know


But all the while I sit and think

Of times that were before

I listen for returning feet

And voices at the door


                    by J R R Tolkien



Let the adventure continue...



Thursday, October 30, 2025

There and Back...

 It's a rainy, reflective day...

Thinking back over 45 years of work, I've been blessed to visit all of the 50, plus Canada, Mexico, Cuba, many islands in the Caribbean, Columbia, South Africa, the United Kingdom, France, Switzerland, the Netherlands, Germany, Italy, Sweden, even little Luxembourg. It's been a grand adventure for an illiterate back-side-of-nowhere punk from Wolcott!


And surprisingly, as the kids got older, J was able to adventure alongside to some of the more exotics, on our dime of course. Hawaii, the Caribbean, London, Switzerland, France, South Africa, why even the wilds of Los Angeles!  She became the seasoned tourista while I mostly worked with occasional time off for good behavior!


If you've read any of the early posts, you'll know we both retired the same day back in 2019, bought a dually and RV, then hit the National Parks circuit. We were months into the grand adventure when Covid was turned into propaganda, so we hightailed it home to PA. 


"There and Back" is a theme from Lord of The Rings. It's our story too.


Like Bilbo, we've been blessed to travel and see a lot, and we're both still looking forward to our travel to the Shire.  Though after 40 years of near constant flying, I plan to NEVER get on another airplane...but we still do catch a bit of the wanderlust.


So we continue to do a fair amount of travel, but we limit it to not more than 7 to 10 days at a time now...but generally, we're up for a good road trip!


It's a good thing too, with a beautiful grandaughter down in OK, a handsome grandson up near the North Pole, family in NC, the Great Smoky Mountains calling from TN along with the white sandy beaches of FL whispering for us...each are needing to be visited!


That said, now at 67 and 68 and still a ways off from being full-time hermits, we're both growing a little more content at just being home...living and enjoying a simple life together.


Sometimes that means J working heads down in her quilting office and me trying to look busy working on the property...


...and sometimes it's just sitting together on the porch sipping coffee...enjoying the View from Windy Hill...


Let the adventure continue...




A Shared Path...

Please forgive me for sounding a bit more mercenary than most.  And please don't think me uncaring, nor judge me as unkind...


Somehow at an early age, I came to a basic belief that all humanity is made up of separate individuals, each walking their own unique path through life.  And though each walk a separate path, sometimes they cross or align with others for a period, so we are often sharing our path.


Each came into the world alone and each leave it alone once again.  Yet hopefully from that beginning to end, there were, are, and will be people around you to whom you decide to offer friendship, to some love, and they in turn share their friendship or love with you...while yet traveling their own path.


Still holding onto that belief, I continue joyfully committed to an amazing path - lovingly shared with J - and to whom I'm committed to sharing the path for a lifetime...


Although for most we meet, the path is shared for only a bit - a moment, an hour or a day, some are measured in years, and a special few for a lifetime.


But nevertheless, at some point, each --- WILL --- be forced, often not by our decision, to part paths...even with a deeply loved spouse and cherished children.


The concept, perhaps appearing cold hearted upon first hearing, once embraced can make living life a little less anxious, that final parting a little less bitter...


...and the precious time shared walking a path together - greatly the sweeter!


Though yet...

While continuing to believe the concept, I've shared the path with a few whom I still dearly miss...

And wish for just one more chance to both comfort and receive comfort with a warm, loving embrace...and offer a proper "Good-bye" with words reflecting the depth of my immense gratitude and appreciation for the privilege of sharing a path together...even if just for a while...



Let the adventure - of walking a shared path together - continue...



A Prelude...

Just a quick story...


Our son (who I've never worried about getting off the way) was in his 3rd year at college and doing great. Unfortunately J's hand-me down Accord, which he was driving, finally died.

I took him to pick out a brand new Honda Civic from a friend working at the Honda dealership...our gift to him.

We happened to pass a sleek, pretty little pearlescent 3 year old Prelude on the lot which he big eyed...for the same money.


Good father which I am, I pointed out the virtues of owning the responsible...and brand new Civic...


And of course he listened to me...and I in turn was watching him...so he drove that sporty Prelude home, the happiest guy in the world and hugely appreciative!

He babied that car for the next 10 years and received renewed joy again from handing the keys to a new 18 year old with the same big eyed dream.


I'm generally a dedicated "Function Over Form" pragmatic, but twenty years later with him in his 40's, he told me that he never believed I would buy the Prelude over the Civic.

It remained a memorable highlight for him and he once again shared sincere appreciation.


The lesson, and something to consider...

Though it was the same money...how it was spent had dramatically different results!



Let the adventure continue...


Thursday, October 2, 2025

6 Years In...

We retired over 6 years ago...but it feels more like 6 weeks!

Somebody on the tractor forum, (my only social media vice!) mentioned retiring tomorrow...and asked were there any pointers from us "old" retired folk...


It started me thinking, which can be dangerous! 


So based on my View From Windy Hill, a few brief words of retirement advice to my 6 years ago self...


1. Keep moving and stay active.


2. Make a Big Goal list - and a daily ToDo list.

> The daily ToDo will keep you focused and there's a major dopamine rush from checking off the daily stuff being accomplished. 

> But don't let the daily ToDo's prevent doing the Big Goal list!

> It sounds crazy, but we still take vacations from retirement for travel and adventures.  It gives us something special to look forward to!

OBX, Blue Moon Beach in Florida, Intercourse (PA!), hiking The Great Smoky Mountains, Arden's Ranch, and of course hanging with Caleb, mixed in with some fishing, auctioning and seeing the Carolina Jumpers.


3. As much as you love your wife, you're now around her 24 hours a day.  It's going to be toughest on her, cause you're mostly clueless...

> So you'll need to work double-hard on the relationship...don't let the romance die before you do...


4. Every day is a gift from God, in retirement, you can learn to fully enjoy each one.

> From Windy Hill, we've a mile long view to a major state road across the lake.  Still after six years of retirement, I'm generally up at 5am working on that first pot of coffee, just sitting alone in the quiet dark, watching folks driving that road on their commute to work...


...And thanking my Father in Heaven that's it's no longer us...


5. One of my favorite sayings has become "...All we have is time..."

> We worked hard and saved for nearly 50 years, and we have been wonderfully blessed.

And for those 50 years, TIME was always the enemy - there was always too little and never any to waste!

> But now we set the priorities, now we set the schedules, now we determine the deadlines!

> The little stuff doesn't matter any longer! Now we happily keep our peace and sanity whether sitting in a waiting room for a Dr. appointment, waiting in a checkout line...or sitting on the porch watching the deer graze or the cats (who adopted us) lazily bask in the sunshine.

> The passing of time no longer controls us.


Freedom truly is priceless!


And after all, time doesn't matter...we're going to live forever...whether it's here or in heaven...



Let the adventure continue...


Wednesday, September 24, 2025

RMIB

Something from the other day reminded me...

There's an old 1926, yet still published book..."The Richest Man In Babylon"...by George Clauson. It's listed on Amazon as a classic and #1 best seller on personal finance.

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The 30 second story summation:

Pay yourself first before you pay others...


The process:

1. Willingly offer a spiritual donation of your first 10% to help others...

2. Next pay yourself 10% (to save and invest)...

3. Only then, proceed with living expenses from the 80% left over...

An important variable is start saving and investing your 10% when young to maximize compound interest, but it's never too late to start.

Hoooo Hummmm, you might think - we already know all that!!!

 

Was it luck?

Was it coincidence?

Was it a blessing from God?


The RMIB book found me in 1982, which was forever ago...

And for whatever reason, it just made sense at the time.  Though in honesty, I expected to see Unicorns and dragons before I expected to see retirement - it was just tooooo far into the future to believe.

But yet, I still believed saving and investing might make a difference.

So though poor, broke, and needing shoes for a 5 year old, we started following its advice, paycheck after paycheck, month after month.  Increases from annual raises and performance bonuses went fully into savings and long-term investment, so over time - - - by choice - - - we were saving and investing well beyond the initial 10% rate - through retirement 37 years later.

it's been a life changer.  The key words are..."by choice"...it was a conscious, point-in-time decision, followed by long-term commitment.


Only the Bible has had more positive impact than the RMIB for us and our marriage.


DO read both, they're life changing.  One's about the Savior, the other's about the saver.


But the RMIB is just a made up story, and too simple you might say.  And saving 10% sounds boring...is this the best you have to offer?

Well, actually a life focused only on the pursuit of money is meaningless and soul killing.


What transforms living into a real adventure is a life submitted to God.  Then it's just a simple act of making the wisest informed decisions you can which are aligned with scripture...and trusting God for everything.  It's not a "name it and claim it" - "genie in a bottle" belief.

It's a foundational trust in a heavenly Father, who the Bible says, has a steadfast love for His children...and keep on saving that 10%!!!


At least that's my View From Windy Hill, and I'm sticking with it!



Let the adventure continue...